OMG - I think that this time next month I'm gonna be a married lady!
So the festivities have started - My sis had me over for a day of rest and relaxation (massage and energy reading) two weekends ago, and last weekend my friends threw a wonderful bridal luncheon for me. Both were great --- very low-key (justwhat I had asked for!)
One of the nicest things about being an older bride is that I know myself much better now than I did at 20. I have come to appreciate friendships now that I know how precious they are. First time brides should definately experience the "bridal shower" with them at the center of it all. It is a rite of passage in many ways! I didn't want to try to be that blushing bride again. And my friends and sister honored my wishes, made sure everything was toned down, and thereby made it much more meaningful for me.
My sis had a massage thereapist and a energy reader come over to spend time with us. The day was quiet - only my sister, my niece and myself. In between sessions, we visited and munched on fruit and crossiant sandwiches. I met Leaha's new family member, Daisy. And we spent lots of time kissing and cuddling. (Daisy is the sweetest little puppy...) After it was all over and I finally had to head back home, I had lots to think about (energy reading) and was in a good place to be reflective.
The bridal luncheon was last Saturday -- and it was great too! It was exactly what I had hoped for -- good friends, good food, and lots of laughter. I think that one of my favorite things is to be in the middle of a group of people who get along well and are having a good time, and just sit back and enjoy the moment. Diane put everything together -- from decorating the table in my colors (and BTW, calla lilies are my favorite flowers) to ensuring that we had a great view of the bay and wonderful weather to compliment it. I don't know how she managed the weather aspect but for those of you who know Diane know that if she puts her mind to it... And the cupcakes were amazing! The staff brought the cupcakes out on a couple of three-tiered plate-thingeys. Wow - what a presentation! When they came out, eveyone ooh'd and aah'd. After we dove throught the cupcakes, the fight was on for the chocolates!!!
Oh! AND the gift from Diane and Kimela. Well, let me just note that paybacks are a ....
heh.
Seriously, I used to think that when someone received a gift that had to do with getting older (cane with a horn, you know the type) they just put it on the shelf. Now I know what really happens... I've needed a pill holder because I forget if I take my pill (thyroid) on many mornings! AND the Benefiber is going with me to Italy. One can never have enough fiber, specially when traveling.
Both days were lovely - filled with family, friends and lots of love. I am so lucky to have these wonderful people in my life.
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